Ask A Real Dude

or many years women have raised the question. “How do I know what my man is thinking?”. To keep it real ladies most of the time your man isn’t thinking anything special at all. There’s no secret to a man. But I will say this: the only things that goes thru a mans mind is Sex, Money, and how to get more of the two. There’s one difference in men—if you have a good man that listens to your rambling, he will try to understand you and have the gumption just to make you happy by doing random nice things. Then, there are the dudes who really could care less. But in all fairness like I previously stated, “Men Are Random”; and that’s really the secret. You just have to make sure he thinks of you when random thoughts go thru his mind.

Here are a couple ways to do just that for all guys:

Step One: Let him be a man. There are ways to make a dude believe he is in control! For guys its all about the look, we could care less about the behind the scenes. Women have all the power. You just have to know how to tap into that power. There are ways to speak, love, dislike, demand, hug, and even get money from a guy. Its all in how you carry yourself. Men love confidence it gives them a boost in drive to do better not just for themselves for you as well.

Step Two: Give one and take two. Give your man one pass and take two. For example: If he wants to do something you absolutely despise, let him do it. And look fine when you approve. If you give the look that you’re really not for his ideas, it won’t work. The trick is to give him enough rope to hang himself. That way when you go for your two he has absolutely no say so on the issue.

Now this third step is very important and its the hardest for women: Listen to your man when he’s excited to tell you something; EVEN WHEN YOUR BUSY… I repeat “EVEN WHEN YOUR BUSY”. When a guy tries to tell you something and he’s determined to let it out that means you’re IN! He trusts you with his heart. I know it sounds weird but that’s how you know you got him. Men are primitive. Our actions go off random thoughts where women are analytical. Their actions are planned. So when we let what’s dear to our hearts out, you have the power to boost his spirits, or crush his dreams. So listen to his voice, and watch his actions, because to read a man is like reading a book, all you have to do is open it. Once you’ve read it there’s nothing new he can do……….. Unless there’s another girl (But we’ll save that for another post).

Ask a real dude…
—J.Meyer